Somethings have happened in my life that have caused me to develop some passive aggressive behavior. I will tell you this the plotting is kind of fun but in the end I don't feel better about what happened at all. I even feel worse because of my behavior. There has to be a better way to let go of old hurt or bring about change in a work situation that is uncomfortable etc. and feel good about yourself. I am not a confront-er because I cry. Anger makes me cry, frustration makes me cry, not finding the right words makes me cry. Some situations cannot just be forgotten, like at work, they must be changed. others must be dealt with emotionally then put away and hopefully forgotten. And some that are so big they cant be forgotten but hopefully able to be packed up in a neat little box mark danger do not reopen ever. .... and let that be the end of it!!
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Somethings have happened in my life that have caused me to develop some passive aggressive behavior. I will tell you this the plotting is kind of fun but in the end I don't feel better about what happened at all. I even feel worse because of my behavior. There has to be a better way to let go of old hurt or bring about change in a work situation that is uncomfortable etc. and feel good about yourself. I am not a confront-er because I cry. Anger makes me cry, frustration makes me cry, not finding the right words makes me cry. Some situations cannot just be forgotten, like at work, they must be changed. others must be dealt with emotionally then put away and hopefully forgotten. And some that are so big they cant be forgotten but hopefully able to be packed up in a neat little box mark danger do not reopen ever. .... and let that be the end of it!!
June 17, 2011 - 8:54amThis Comment
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