always though i was alone in this same problem you had but heres what helped me ...well best thing to do is start slow tell your partner it hurts you and to go slow commuication is always key too so he can work with you also try using fourplay sometimes it hurts cause vagina is not lubricated enough fourplay arousal you so natural lube or backward cowgirl or cowgirl (both positions give you better control over the penis than him)doggstyle(vagina from behind),oral first, me i use millennium brand pure silicone lube or together his & hers warming lube drop on penis drop on vagina astroglide natural lube is good to all lubes i suggested will stay around during sex and not dry up easy and make it better ky for me does very quickly or try a shower before sex or try having sex in shower (note but when you take shower don't dry off just get right into sex) sex toys that you have try peniation with out him or with him so vagina get use to peniation like every other day or so in that area i try using a sex toy that is size of my boyfriend's penis and moving it in inch by inch also try more natural sex toy that looks and feels just like penis helps to remember though more arouse you are less it hurts and course natural lube is always best more lubricated better GOOD LUCK HOPE IT HELPED
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always though i was alone in this same problem you had but heres what helped me ...well best thing to do is start slow tell your partner it hurts you and to go slow commuication is always key too so he can work with you also try using fourplay sometimes it hurts cause vagina is not lubricated enough fourplay arousal you so natural lube or backward cowgirl or cowgirl (both positions give you better control over the penis than him)doggstyle(vagina from behind),oral first, me i use millennium brand pure silicone lube or together his & hers warming lube drop on penis drop on vagina astroglide natural lube is good to all lubes i suggested will stay around during sex and not dry up easy and make it better ky for me does very quickly or try a shower before sex or try having sex in shower (note but when you take shower don't dry off just get right into sex) sex toys that you have try peniation with out him or with him so vagina get use to peniation like every other day or so in that area i try using a sex toy that is size of my boyfriend's penis and moving it in inch by inch also try more natural sex toy that looks and feels just like penis helps to remember though more arouse you are less it hurts and course natural lube is always best more lubricated better GOOD LUCK HOPE IT HELPED
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