I'm so sorry you had to go through such a terrible experience. It's natural that you feel scared about sex or anything related to sex. Have you had professional help from someone who is an expert with the trauma experienced in an assault? Your boyfriend sounds like he is very understanding-- he is a keeper. But you may need more than just him to get you through this. Little by little you will learn that not every man is like the one who assaulted you- but it takes baby steps. As for the pregnancy scare, if he just rubbed on you-- chances are you aren't pregnant..it's very rare that someone gets pregnant this way--VERY rare.
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Dear Anon,
I'm so sorry you had to go through such a terrible experience. It's natural that you feel scared about sex or anything related to sex. Have you had professional help from someone who is an expert with the trauma experienced in an assault? Your boyfriend sounds like he is very understanding-- he is a keeper. But you may need more than just him to get you through this. Little by little you will learn that not every man is like the one who assaulted you- but it takes baby steps. As for the pregnancy scare, if he just rubbed on you-- chances are you aren't pregnant..it's very rare that someone gets pregnant this way--VERY rare.
Please keep us updated,
Rosa
June 28, 2011 - 8:28amThis Comment
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