Thanks for your post. You are absolutely right, we all have our fears and sometimes some are irrational but the fear kind of blurs our reality.
To ease your mind, you cannot be pregnant if you had dry sex (or dry humping). If you were naked, there would be a possibility--still slim if there was no ejaculation. But to be considered soaked, the man must ejaculate a lot and most men don't ejaculate more than a quarter size so things over the internet can be grossly exaggerated. Sperm also begins to die minutes outside of the male body making the ones that survive, very weak and impossible to swim through your clothes and find their way into your vagina.
Remember that people consider themselves soaked but they don't realize that it may be coming from the woman as well when she is excited. If he was fully dressed and you were fully dressed, rest assured- you are not pregnant.
However, because you are so scared of being pregnant I would reconsider having sex or any sexual activity until you fully understand the consequences and are ready to engage in sexual activities.
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Hi Anon,
Thanks for your post. You are absolutely right, we all have our fears and sometimes some are irrational but the fear kind of blurs our reality.
To ease your mind, you cannot be pregnant if you had dry sex (or dry humping). If you were naked, there would be a possibility--still slim if there was no ejaculation. But to be considered soaked, the man must ejaculate a lot and most men don't ejaculate more than a quarter size so things over the internet can be grossly exaggerated. Sperm also begins to die minutes outside of the male body making the ones that survive, very weak and impossible to swim through your clothes and find their way into your vagina.
Remember that people consider themselves soaked but they don't realize that it may be coming from the woman as well when she is excited. If he was fully dressed and you were fully dressed, rest assured- you are not pregnant.
However, because you are so scared of being pregnant I would reconsider having sex or any sexual activity until you fully understand the consequences and are ready to engage in sexual activities.
Best of luck,
Rosa
September 13, 2011 - 6:13amThis Comment
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