thank you very much for your prompt reply. Having a baby at this time is not in my list as my main priority now is to try and sort this out (either one way or another). When we discussed about having babies he stated that he was married because he wants to have kids, but not at this time.
Now regarding sex, before he came home we had discussed and agreed that there will be an adjusting period as it was a big shock for both of us. But I feel much pain when I see him not wanting to touch or kiss me. I asked him about the reason he does not want to have sex and he told me that he just not feel emotionally well, so he cannot do that. He says that "it is not me, it's him" to blame and that he needs some time to try and sort things out about himself. Yesterday he announced to me that he wants to go and live abroad.
During the last months he goes to the gyme 3 times / week (which was doing that anyway), but now he takes protein shakes, etc. and is much interested on his body appearance. I am suspecting he has something similar to "mid life crisis" (girls, appearance, attitude), but on the other hand isn't he a bit young for this?
Thank you in advance for your support, your help is much appreciated!
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Hi Susan,
thank you very much for your prompt reply. Having a baby at this time is not in my list as my main priority now is to try and sort this out (either one way or another). When we discussed about having babies he stated that he was married because he wants to have kids, but not at this time.
Now regarding sex, before he came home we had discussed and agreed that there will be an adjusting period as it was a big shock for both of us. But I feel much pain when I see him not wanting to touch or kiss me. I asked him about the reason he does not want to have sex and he told me that he just not feel emotionally well, so he cannot do that. He says that "it is not me, it's him" to blame and that he needs some time to try and sort things out about himself. Yesterday he announced to me that he wants to go and live abroad.
During the last months he goes to the gyme 3 times / week (which was doing that anyway), but now he takes protein shakes, etc. and is much interested on his body appearance. I am suspecting he has something similar to "mid life crisis" (girls, appearance, attitude), but on the other hand isn't he a bit young for this?
Thank you in advance for your support, your help is much appreciated!
Helen
September 28, 2011 - 10:22pmThis Comment
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