I'm not one of the "handful," but I can say that when I look at my husband, the father of my beautiful son, the history we've built together, all of his faults, our "couple" faults, any thoughts of leaving melt away. We've worked hard at both the good and the bad in our relationship. We've grown around each other, and I think I'd be devestated if I lost him, no matter how much he irritates me or doesn't fulfill all of my desires. I also know I'm no picnic to live with; that I've contributed 50% to the ills of this relationship, as well as 50% of all the good stuff. The other major reason: Is it really better alone? Is it possible to find something better than an average guy with flaws that I already know about and have learned to work around????? Would I find someone who puts up with MY CRAP????
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I'm not one of the "handful," but I can say that when I look at my husband, the father of my beautiful son, the history we've built together, all of his faults, our "couple" faults, any thoughts of leaving melt away. We've worked hard at both the good and the bad in our relationship. We've grown around each other, and I think I'd be devestated if I lost him, no matter how much he irritates me or doesn't fulfill all of my desires. I also know I'm no picnic to live with; that I've contributed 50% to the ills of this relationship, as well as 50% of all the good stuff. The other major reason: Is it really better alone? Is it possible to find something better than an average guy with flaws that I already know about and have learned to work around????? Would I find someone who puts up with MY CRAP????
September 30, 2011 - 7:31amThis Comment
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