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Hmm,you should ask him how he would feel if you were no longer attracted to him because of his weight gain. There is always a double-standard between men and women on so many levels because society allows it. The difference is,women are more forgiving if the man in their life gains weight because we tend to see past the superficial and remind ourselves we fell in love with the essence of this man. You should also ask yourself what you feel about your weight gain. If this guy won't have sex with you because he is no longer attracted to you, then I don't see how you can have children together, let alone a healthy relationship. I'm irritated by the fact he claims to love you,but is no longer attracted to you nor desires to leave you. That doesn't make sense because most men don't settle for a sexless relationship. There lies the cunundrum. For your sake, I hope you regain a workout regimen that also includes healthy eating because you will feel better. Losing weight would be the bonus and maybe some other guy will come along who will love you in spite of whatever physical changes you may incur.