Wow... Reading your story made me sad because I know exactly how you feel and it sounds terrible that after only 5-6 months we are going thru this! It is just such a shock. The sex part is what amazes me the most. He never left me alone before and now he doesn't even seem to want to in the least bit. Does your husband try at all or is it all up to you? The other day I told him everything that was on my mind. I told him everything I said on here and he reassured me he loves me, I'm his best friend, etc and he is going to try more. It made me happy because it was all I wanted to hear but deep down inside I didn't really trust it would all get better. Only been 5 days and already back to same old. We had sex the day after we spoke about it and because it had been so long, it was over very quick. He said he was sorry and he would make it up to me that night. 5 days later, nothing. I was thinking earlier today when I was single and not wearing a ring, how much I would get hit on and he didn't like it. It almost makes me feel that now that he has me and everyone knows we are married he doesn't value me like he did before. Does that make sense? I am obviously thinking so much over this. I can't pinpoint but this is something that came to mind. In your case do you think it is the pregnancy that may be causing this? I have heard of that before. That some men get scared to have sex when the girl is pregnant because they feel you're more fragile. I also have a friend that changed for the pregnancy of his wife and it seemed like he was pregnant with all the moodswings but after the baby came, he is ok now. Hopefully this is the case for you. I understand what you mean about your husband acting like a child and leaves when you fight. I don't understand the immaturity in them. It makes me so mad sometimes I say mean stuff about him needing to be a man and stop being a ***** and a thousand other things. I get so mad that I have to fix it or chase him. Have you talked to your husband about everything lately?
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Wow... Reading your story made me sad because I know exactly how you feel and it sounds terrible that after only 5-6 months we are going thru this! It is just such a shock. The sex part is what amazes me the most. He never left me alone before and now he doesn't even seem to want to in the least bit. Does your husband try at all or is it all up to you? The other day I told him everything that was on my mind. I told him everything I said on here and he reassured me he loves me, I'm his best friend, etc and he is going to try more. It made me happy because it was all I wanted to hear but deep down inside I didn't really trust it would all get better. Only been 5 days and already back to same old. We had sex the day after we spoke about it and because it had been so long, it was over very quick. He said he was sorry and he would make it up to me that night. 5 days later, nothing. I was thinking earlier today when I was single and not wearing a ring, how much I would get hit on and he didn't like it. It almost makes me feel that now that he has me and everyone knows we are married he doesn't value me like he did before. Does that make sense? I am obviously thinking so much over this. I can't pinpoint but this is something that came to mind. In your case do you think it is the pregnancy that may be causing this? I have heard of that before. That some men get scared to have sex when the girl is pregnant because they feel you're more fragile. I also have a friend that changed for the pregnancy of his wife and it seemed like he was pregnant with all the moodswings but after the baby came, he is ok now. Hopefully this is the case for you. I understand what you mean about your husband acting like a child and leaves when you fight. I don't understand the immaturity in them. It makes me so mad sometimes I say mean stuff about him needing to be a man and stop being a ***** and a thousand other things. I get so mad that I have to fix it or chase him. Have you talked to your husband about everything lately?
January 6, 2012 - 9:54pmThis Comment
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