I have the same problem, but is not because Im overweight. Im too skinny actually and have stretched skin and stretchmarks from growing overweight from having cancer. I dont know why my husband isnt attracted to me either. We ladies are not perfect, but its definately whats inside that matters. In my 31 years Ive been through enough health problems to know that you could have a super model's body, and in a split second that could all be destroyed. I know that for a fact. So if you want to lose weight, do it for yourself, not because someone isnt happy with the way you look. Search inside and out for things that you like about yourself, and what you dont like, try to improve. If you cant improve it, accept it and embrace who you are. Our worth is not determined by others! Its all you babygirl. If your significant other doesnt love and want you as you are, it most likely means you are incompatible. I say this confidently about my own marriage. I am of the belief that people shouldnt try to change others into who they want them to be. We should be accepted and loved for who we are, or move along and find someone that will. I hope this helps, best of luck to all of us.
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I have the same problem, but is not because Im overweight. Im too skinny actually and have stretched skin and stretchmarks from growing overweight from having cancer. I dont know why my husband isnt attracted to me either. We ladies are not perfect, but its definately whats inside that matters. In my 31 years Ive been through enough health problems to know that you could have a super model's body, and in a split second that could all be destroyed. I know that for a fact. So if you want to lose weight, do it for yourself, not because someone isnt happy with the way you look. Search inside and out for things that you like about yourself, and what you dont like, try to improve. If you cant improve it, accept it and embrace who you are. Our worth is not determined by others! Its all you babygirl. If your significant other doesnt love and want you as you are, it most likely means you are incompatible. I say this confidently about my own marriage. I am of the belief that people shouldnt try to change others into who they want them to be. We should be accepted and loved for who we are, or move along and find someone that will. I hope this helps, best of luck to all of us.
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