You are both in your late twenties-- it is almost expected that at this point in your lives and relationship the topic of babies comes up. You already know that he does want children, the question is now--when? You can ask him "How about if we stopped using condoms soon to try to have a baby? Would you like that? or would you like to wait a little longer?" For all you know he may LOVE the idea of you wanting to start trying to have a child with him. This way he could easily say-- lets do it! or Maybe it's best that we wait a few months to a year longer. This would, at the very least, open up the conversation for discussion... if he wants to wait you can ask what his concerns are, share your feelings about a baby, etc.
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Hi Anon,
You are both in your late twenties-- it is almost expected that at this point in your lives and relationship the topic of babies comes up. You already know that he does want children, the question is now--when? You can ask him "How about if we stopped using condoms soon to try to have a baby? Would you like that? or would you like to wait a little longer?" For all you know he may LOVE the idea of you wanting to start trying to have a child with him. This way he could easily say-- lets do it! or Maybe it's best that we wait a few months to a year longer. This would, at the very least, open up the conversation for discussion... if he wants to wait you can ask what his concerns are, share your feelings about a baby, etc.
Please keep us posted!
Rosa
January 22, 2012 - 7:37amThis Comment
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