Thank you for your question and I am sorry that your baby's Dad is being a "poo head" for a lack of a better term. If I was in your situation, I would agree with how you are feeling and the choices you are making.
I would make an appointment and then ask him to come with you to the doctors appointment. Just explain to him that you were afraid due to the rumor mill that occurred when you thought you were not pregnant. Also explain your choice and ask for him to come with you as you do not want to go through it alone. I would explain this all to him to make sure that he doesn't feel as if you are trying to force him into being with you as it seems from your post, that he was trying to "not" be with you after your sexual relations. This is never easy for any woman to deal with a break up let alone having a pregnancy to deal with afterwards.
You are not alone as many women have been in the same situation. Be strong, ask for his support but remember that if he is not there for you, call one of your girlfriends or your family to help you through this time. I hope this helps but please share more if you need to talk. We are here for you.
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Hi Anonymous,
Thank you for your question and I am sorry that your baby's Dad is being a "poo head" for a lack of a better term. If I was in your situation, I would agree with how you are feeling and the choices you are making.
I would make an appointment and then ask him to come with you to the doctors appointment. Just explain to him that you were afraid due to the rumor mill that occurred when you thought you were not pregnant. Also explain your choice and ask for him to come with you as you do not want to go through it alone. I would explain this all to him to make sure that he doesn't feel as if you are trying to force him into being with you as it seems from your post, that he was trying to "not" be with you after your sexual relations. This is never easy for any woman to deal with a break up let alone having a pregnancy to deal with afterwards.
You are not alone as many women have been in the same situation. Be strong, ask for his support but remember that if he is not there for you, call one of your girlfriends or your family to help you through this time. I hope this helps but please share more if you need to talk. We are here for you.
Good luck,
Missie
April 1, 2012 - 5:51amThis Comment
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