Sorry this is happening to you, but rest assured, you can get through it. My advise to you would be:
1) Tell him exactly how you feel. If you can do so without anger, judgement, or becoming overly emotional that's best.
2) Tell him what you want to see happen. In other words, give him concrete actions he or you both can take to resolve your concern.
3) Once you've done that, back off! If he cares about you as much as you care about him, he will make an effort to easy your concern.
Be prepared to accept that he may not rise to the cause. If he disappoints, YOU have to decide to stay in it or move on. It's your choice and you alone are the best to determine what's best for your situation.
Sure, he may be going through something and you can take that into consideration. Maybe a break, short or long term is in order? Two years is a long time to have invested your time, love, and feelings into someone who is acting inconsiderate of your feelings and ungrateful to have you.
You're smart, caring, and beautiful! Follow your intuition and know that you have options. And those options will be good with or without him.
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Sorry this is happening to you, but rest assured, you can get through it. My advise to you would be:
1) Tell him exactly how you feel. If you can do so without anger, judgement, or becoming overly emotional that's best.
2) Tell him what you want to see happen. In other words, give him concrete actions he or you both can take to resolve your concern.
3) Once you've done that, back off! If he cares about you as much as you care about him, he will make an effort to easy your concern.
Be prepared to accept that he may not rise to the cause. If he disappoints, YOU have to decide to stay in it or move on. It's your choice and you alone are the best to determine what's best for your situation.
Sure, he may be going through something and you can take that into consideration. Maybe a break, short or long term is in order? Two years is a long time to have invested your time, love, and feelings into someone who is acting inconsiderate of your feelings and ungrateful to have you.
You're smart, caring, and beautiful! Follow your intuition and know that you have options. And those options will be good with or without him.
November 5, 2012 - 1:43pmThis Comment
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