I'm sorry you've been dealing with this for 18 years.
Your wife doesn't really have a right to chastise you for having a sexual outlet; you have been left abandoned in a very important aspect of life - your sexuality.
It's very hard for us to give you advice on what to do. I'm sure you have thought of the alternatives (a dating service for example, for female company) but that is going outside the bounds of your marriage. You haven't explained your reasons for having to stay in the marriage (are you absolutely sure?) but if you must stay, you're living a very difficult, uncompromising life - as I'm sure you can attest to.
Susan
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Hello Anon
I'm sorry you've been dealing with this for 18 years.
October 2, 2017 - 3:36pmYour wife doesn't really have a right to chastise you for having a sexual outlet; you have been left abandoned in a very important aspect of life - your sexuality.
It's very hard for us to give you advice on what to do. I'm sure you have thought of the alternatives (a dating service for example, for female company) but that is going outside the bounds of your marriage. You haven't explained your reasons for having to stay in the marriage (are you absolutely sure?) but if you must stay, you're living a very difficult, uncompromising life - as I'm sure you can attest to.
Susan
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