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I am also happy to see that I am not the only one. My problem is that I get very emotional when he denies sex. Been with the bf for 4.5 years, we both lost the v cards with each other. But, we did do it lots before and now, he tells me tomorrow we can have sex, the day comes... I'm too tired or I can't I need to wake up early. Tomorrow I promise. I only had sex twice within two months... I also try to talk to him about how I feel like stop saying you will but then you don't do it. I also ask him if he still finds me attractive and of course he says yes. I ask him why he doesn't want sex and then we get into an argument every time and then he pulls stop, you are not making me want to have sex with you... I'm like excuse me?? How can you say that when you haven't even tried to have sex. It is getting really hard for me when he denies, I think sex is important for a relationship and to me, it brings me closer to him emotionally. He doesn't understand that but I had already mentioned it to him plenty of times. I sometimes think if we should break up because of it, but I am not going to because I love him a lot and I know he's the one. But he's never sexually active which is frustrating for me.