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I've been with my guy for a considerable amount of time now- about a decade. I hear that long term gfs and wives often complain about sex dwindling off but this still baffles me! Is this really life?! I often find myself asking... He just about never comes to me for sex. If I complain then he may/ but I feel totally undesirable. Weeks will pass with by with no sexual interaction if I don't mention it or make a move. Now granted, he will have sex with me if I initiate it, but he never comes on to me. It makes me believe he is unfaithful and when I confront him about it, he denied all of my allegations. He says he is attracted to me, that he loves me, that he is faithful and that he's just tired most of the time. Or he just isn't as interested in sex because he isn't always horny or too freaky- but this is the same man who was watching porn in secret, looking at other women's inappropriate social media photos and was interested in a 3 some! Well I believe he is unfaithful/ I think I'm leaving him...