I am in a very similar situation. I'm 24.. My boyfriend is 27. We have been together for 2 years now at the beginning of our relationship we had sex all the time. Multiple times a week. Atleast everyday. This past year our sex life has dwindled away. He always rejects me when I try to initiate the sex and it makes me feel so unwanted unattractive and like you mentioned very unfulfilled I've talked with him about it and he yet again assures me it's not me and he's just not in the mood or feels like he won't be able to pleasure me.. It's gotten to the point now where it's making me miserable. I need sex. I love him more then anything but I'm not happy and I'm sick of feeling this way. Might sound a little selfish but is it me? Hes talked to girls behind my back in the past but things from that have gotten so much better with that as far as trust goes.. I feel so discouraged and very self conscious.
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I am in a very similar situation. I'm 24.. My boyfriend is 27. We have been together for 2 years now at the beginning of our relationship we had sex all the time. Multiple times a week. Atleast everyday. This past year our sex life has dwindled away. He always rejects me when I try to initiate the sex and it makes me feel so unwanted unattractive and like you mentioned very unfulfilled I've talked with him about it and he yet again assures me it's not me and he's just not in the mood or feels like he won't be able to pleasure me.. It's gotten to the point now where it's making me miserable. I need sex. I love him more then anything but I'm not happy and I'm sick of feeling this way. Might sound a little selfish but is it me? Hes talked to girls behind my back in the past but things from that have gotten so much better with that as far as trust goes.. I feel so discouraged and very self conscious.
November 21, 2016 - 3:04pmThis Comment
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