I'm going to respectfully disagree. Obviously I'm here because I'm going through a lack-of-sex thing too. But both my boyfriend and my relationship are extremely transparent, and I genuinely believe that he just isn't that into sex. Obviously it can be hurtful, and frustrating at times, but I think we're so used to men being portrayed as horndogs that if a man doesn't want to have sex then we instantly think that there's something wrong with us or that he's cheating on us or watching copious amounts of porn. I think people, women and men, are more nuanced than that.
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I'm going to respectfully disagree. Obviously I'm here because I'm going through a lack-of-sex thing too. But both my boyfriend and my relationship are extremely transparent, and I genuinely believe that he just isn't that into sex. Obviously it can be hurtful, and frustrating at times, but I think we're so used to men being portrayed as horndogs that if a man doesn't want to have sex then we instantly think that there's something wrong with us or that he's cheating on us or watching copious amounts of porn. I think people, women and men, are more nuanced than that.
July 18, 2017 - 6:12pmThis Comment
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