Thank you for your helpful words. I finally gathered the courage to ask him tonight.
We have had some close calls in the last year, as I am not on birth control. We want to one day start a family but not while we're still getting used to being married. Also we are in the middle of transferring out of military life with no certainty of our future. He said he is scared for an unplanned pregnancy. So we agreed that we need to make an appointment for me to see a doctor asap.
I also explained to him that if he has thoughts that huge that could have impact on our relationship that he needs to talk to me. He said he didn't think about how it would make it seem that he's choosing porn over me.
Thank you for giving me the courage to talk about this with him.
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Thank you for your helpful words. I finally gathered the courage to ask him tonight.
We have had some close calls in the last year, as I am not on birth control. We want to one day start a family but not while we're still getting used to being married. Also we are in the middle of transferring out of military life with no certainty of our future. He said he is scared for an unplanned pregnancy. So we agreed that we need to make an appointment for me to see a doctor asap.
I also explained to him that if he has thoughts that huge that could have impact on our relationship that he needs to talk to me. He said he didn't think about how it would make it seem that he's choosing porn over me.
Thank you for giving me the courage to talk about this with him.
September 24, 2014 - 1:38amThis Comment
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