Thank you for reaching out to the EmpowHER community for advice about your new situation.
Relationships can be so unpredictable and so it's hard to say what he will do. You can only be responsible for your feelings and what you choose to do.
I would message him and say that you'd like to talk honestly about what happened last night. Hopefully he will respond and want to know your feelings.
You should let him know that you didn't intend to lie about being a virgin, but that you want to start the relationship off on honesty and so you wanted to clean the slate and confess the truth so that you can have a healthy relationship moving forward.
Anytime you have sex early in a relationship you risk getting your heart broken because you have yet to establish a commitment.
Maybe you should spend more time getting to know each other, abstain from sex right now until you guys know you both are in love for sure.
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Hi Anon,
Thank you for reaching out to the EmpowHER community for advice about your new situation.
Relationships can be so unpredictable and so it's hard to say what he will do. You can only be responsible for your feelings and what you choose to do.
I would message him and say that you'd like to talk honestly about what happened last night. Hopefully he will respond and want to know your feelings.
You should let him know that you didn't intend to lie about being a virgin, but that you want to start the relationship off on honesty and so you wanted to clean the slate and confess the truth so that you can have a healthy relationship moving forward.
Anytime you have sex early in a relationship you risk getting your heart broken because you have yet to establish a commitment.
Maybe you should spend more time getting to know each other, abstain from sex right now until you guys know you both are in love for sure.
Anon, did this help?
Kristin
October 11, 2014 - 12:16pmThis Comment
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