Hello and thank you for sharing your question. I am so sorry to hear about your situation. I'd like to give you some helpful advice on the matter.
Since non-verbal q's have no been successful thus far, I suggest that you try being verbal about your needs. I only caution you, to use as many "I" statements as possible instead of "you statements. Using "you" statements will seem accusatory or may have the opposite effect of what you want.
If he has particular reason for acting sexually indifferent to you, it could be phycological changes. If he, however, does not have a particular reason, and/or is not bothered by the lack of physical intimacy, then it could be a physical change instead of phycological change that he is unaware of.
In any case, it will be impossible for me to speculate the exact reason(s) for his behavior. I can only encourage you to have an open, non-accusatory conversation with him about it.
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Hello and thank you for sharing your question. I am so sorry to hear about your situation. I'd like to give you some helpful advice on the matter.
Since non-verbal q's have no been successful thus far, I suggest that you try being verbal about your needs. I only caution you, to use as many "I" statements as possible instead of "you statements. Using "you" statements will seem accusatory or may have the opposite effect of what you want.
If he has particular reason for acting sexually indifferent to you, it could be phycological changes. If he, however, does not have a particular reason, and/or is not bothered by the lack of physical intimacy, then it could be a physical change instead of phycological change that he is unaware of.
In any case, it will be impossible for me to speculate the exact reason(s) for his behavior. I can only encourage you to have an open, non-accusatory conversation with him about it.
Faith
March 29, 2015 - 11:15amThis Comment
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