This is just my opinion, but anyone that causes you to doubt yourself or make you feel bad about the way you look when you felt/feel at peace with your looks, is not a positive force in your life. If your husband loves you, he loves all of you, as you are. As you did him. That's how it works. Or at least that is how it needs to work for me. His pressure on you to lose weight, imo, has contributed to your weight gain, no doubt from stress and feeling unloved. Is this how you want to live your life? Only you can answer this.
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Hi, Anon.
Thank you for your message.
This is just my opinion, but anyone that causes you to doubt yourself or make you feel bad about the way you look when you felt/feel at peace with your looks, is not a positive force in your life. If your husband loves you, he loves all of you, as you are. As you did him. That's how it works. Or at least that is how it needs to work for me. His pressure on you to lose weight, imo, has contributed to your weight gain, no doubt from stress and feeling unloved. Is this how you want to live your life? Only you can answer this.
Helena
July 9, 2017 - 4:55amThis Comment
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