Author of How To Take Care of Old People Without Losing Your Marbles. Eldercare expert, speaker, blogger. Experience - earned it the hard way, I'm in my second decade of eldercare. I know most ladies are impacted with eldercare issues if they're over 45. It can be stressful, frustrating and overwhelming. It can affect your health. Getting organized, prepared and aware of the resources available (and adding some laughter) can help reduce the stress and improve the outcome.