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15 days pregnancy...Could it be prevented? How much it costs in India?

By Anonymous January 27, 2012 - 8:15pm
 
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i & my girlfriend had sex before 15 days but i didn't inserted my penis into her vagina fully. and put semen onto her outer vagina. I asked this question from this site & got satisfied answer. Thank you
But now my girlfriend's period delay to 3 days. Does she get pregnant?
she is scared about that & because of my mistake she is willing to die. plz help us. I am from India. How should i convince for to medical abortion? & how much it costs in India?
Thank you

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Anonymous

Hi Anonymous,

Sorry, I see that you wrote that in your above post. As Rosa mentioned, the first thing you need to find out is if she is pregnant. If she is pregnant, please be a friend and tell someone if she intends to take her life.

I completely understand your culture and woman are intended to stay virgins until marriage ALTHOUGH, this is certainly not a good reason to take one's life. Your friend is not the only person to be put in this predicament.

From your initial post, there is a highly unlikely chance of pregnancy and the late period may be due to the stress that you are concerning yourself with a possibly pregnancy. I know this is a scary time but WAIT. If she has not had her period after 10 days, take a pregnancy test.

Keep us posted.

Missie

January 29, 2012 - 4:23pm
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

Thanks Miscortes, lets see ... I know its only my mistake.i should not do that to her. I pray to God..Plz plz...don't do that what we are thinking about..& plz...plz... pray for us..Bcoz I love Her so Much & don't want to loose her...:(

January 30, 2012 - 12:39am
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Anonymous

Hi Anonymous,

Suicide is not the answer to this situation. Please have your friend get help immediately if she is talking suicide. Are you located in India or in the United States?

Missie

January 28, 2012 - 11:09am
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

i m located in India. thanks for ur help...God will help me...

January 29, 2012 - 9:41am

Dear Anonymous,

Before you and your girlfriend assume that she is pregnant, please have her take a pregnancy test. 

I am not familiar with India's laws on abortion so I cannot give you any information on that but you can't force someone into having an abortion if she does not want to. 

Do you know why she would want to die because of this? Please remind her that a late period can also be caused by stress and not necessarily pregnancy--that's why it is important for her to test for pregnancy. Please observe for suicidal symptoms if you are afraid that she may harm herself. 

Best Wishes,

Rosa

January 28, 2012 - 5:43am
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Anonymous (reply to Rosa Cabrera RN)

bcoz it's our mistake & Indian girls are not intended to do this kind of act so if she get pregnant , she want to die. I am afraid of lost her. but if i tell her to take pregnancy test & if it shows positive. she will commit suicide. i dont know what should i do now??? :(

January 28, 2012 - 6:18am
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