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Pain in Ingle/groin and kidney/ovaire during/after sex that last for days ...

By February 18, 2011 - 9:01am
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Hi so I'm kind of worrying about this pain because I have had it before a little bit on my sides (kidney are or ovarie area) only during sex. But the other night my boyfriend and I were having sex (not that rough/normal sex) and I started to feel a sharp almost stabbing pain in my ingle/groin area (right about my vagina).. and while trying to change positions to try and make the pain go away my kidneys or ovaries started to hurt so we had to stop.. After for the rest of the night I could hardly stand up, and would feel that sharp pain when I would sit or unrine (not a burning but that same sharp pain.. The pain in my sides finally went away but last night when i was feeling fine we tried again and yet again had to stop. This time to pain was worse... It was extremely hard for me to walk up the stairs and couldnt stand up if I tried after making it to the couch if he were to lean on my side it would hurt. Laughing hurt... Waking up numerous times last night in pain and still this morning I am still feeling that sharp pain and cant completely stand up right... What could this be...? Im really worried...

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Girls I really really need help. I am 19 years old, me and my boyfriend have sex almost every night and every once in a while he will hit somewhere in certain positions that will give off a really sharp pain but will go away within minutes but last night it didn't matter what position we were in it was hurting in every way on my lower left side, it hurt all night and hurts till this morning too. I went to the doctor about a month ago and they said everything looks good. Please help!!!!!

October 20, 2016 - 8:43am
Guide (reply to Sinclairewooden)

Hello Sinclairewooden,

Since you were examined and evaluated by your physician last month, and no problem was found, maybe the pain is caused by aggressive thrusting and not enough lubrication.

Try giving yourself a break from vaginal intercourse, at least until the pain subsides. Allow yourself enough time for foreplay and wait until you feel lubricated. Ask your boyfriend to be gentle.

Just a guess,

October 20, 2016 - 8:51am
EmpowHER Guest

I think i have the same problem. It worries me when i think of my wife. Don't wanna hurt her in any way. There's a pain next to my kidneys after having sex. Please help.

February 24, 2016 - 2:28pm
EmpowHER Guest

This post is old but gunna comment and ask anws.
Hey everyone. last night was the first time ever where i have a full intercourse. Lost my virginity lately but ... Never went too deep, just the head until last night. When it was really deep ( all in ) at some strokes i would feel as if there is something stabbing me in both sides of my lower back ( i guess where my ovaries are ) it scared me and it seems impossible for me to find any answer for that on the internet, can please anyone help me ?
Thank you

July 22, 2015 - 12:30pm
EmpowHER Guest

I Have had the same problem in my right side. I do not have a partner but it would be really painful the sexual relationships. On three different occasions I was so bloated, inflamed with pressure when I urinated o defecated that i thought that it was a kidney infection. After taking cranberry juice, pills and fruit it dissipated after three days. I know that cranberry was not the cause of my improvement.
I have talked to doctors and they did not find anything. A had ecograms before but they did not approached to the ingle. A doctor 18 years ago, told me that i had a hernia and now I requested a sonogram that sees the soft tissue. It looked that there is a mass that it could be Mioma, I will have next week a CT Scan. Most of the time the Miomas are benign and they could be outside or inside the uterus. Request a ct scan to see if you solve the problem.

June 7, 2015 - 1:22pm
EmpowHER Guest

I have the same my doctor said I strain myself

May 17, 2015 - 7:29am
EmpowHER Guest

Iam also same prblm .. ..idono what do? Becose iam stating gulf ..plz help full coment

April 20, 2015 - 12:35am
EmpowHER Guest

I've been having the same problems off and on for 2 years. Im 21. The doctors can't figure it out. My back will hurt so bad it almost feels numb. =/

July 28, 2014 - 9:23pm
EmpowHER Guest

Hi I also have the very same problem during and after sex, would get a very sharp pain on my right side, I could hadly walk or stand straight, would get nauseas and feel pressure on my tummy. Went 4 tests and check ups but they can't seem to find the cause of it. Sex is a nightmare for me lately!!


April 22, 2013 - 3:19pm
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

Hi I'm feeling the same. You got any solution?

January 15, 2015 - 7:40pm
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