PLEASE HELP!

Hello--I know you are anxious about paternity. If your boyfriend wants to, you can easily swab inside his cheek and the baby's cheek, even the day the baby is born using the Identigene DNA paternity test from a drug store and then have 100% accurate results in 2 days. Full disclosure-this company is my client. I've seen some very happy stories come from eliminating paternity doubts. Blessings to you!

Thank you Maryann:) and no I promise I'm not holding any other information or not saying the truth. I appreciate the talk, the help you gave me and I'm going to stop worrying and enjoy this pregnancy happily. Take care and I hope all goes well:) God Bless.

Please relax because all of your stress will negatively impact your developing baby. From what you have shared, you did not get pregnant from the dry humping experience but did conceive by having sexual intercourse with your boyfriend. Unless you are withholding any other information about sexual encounters, you are pregnant with your boyfriend's baby.

This baby is your child. Your baby did not ask to be created. You took the action that resulted in this new life. Take care of yourself and your unborn child during these months of development. It will be worth it and as good as you want it to be. Believe me- I have 3 children and I would not trade the experience of being their mother and the joy that they bring to my life for all the money in the world.

Maryann

No I haven't gone to the doctor yet... But I hope I will get to soon but what I was thinking was maybe I had sex Jan 29 or Jan 30 and I started my period anyway on the 31st b/c of my period being so close that I had to start and since I'm 9 wks now... I guess I was a week pregnant on Feb. 5th right b/c last week I was 8 wks and 2 days when I went to go get a ultrasound done last week on the 27th. I went to to clinic where everything is free, but Maryann honestly pls tell me with your knowlegde, should I be worried or can I enjoy my pregnancy and know I didn't get pregnant by that...? B/c I don't want to go thru with this if in the end it's going to be terrible it just wouldn't be worth it, and I wouldn't want it to turn out that way... Pls reply back! Thank you.

Sperm from the dry-humping episode could not have entered your vagina because you were wearing a tampon and the guy's penis was covered by his shirt. In order to conceive (get pregnant) sperm has to enter your vagina, an egg has to have been released by one of your ovaries and the sperm must fertilize the egg. One of your ovaries releases an egg about 2 weeks before the start of your period. This is called ovulation.

Having unprotected sexual intercourse before the start of your period increases your change of getting pregnant.

After your baby is born, you could always have a paternity blood test done to confirm who the baby's father is. If there is a question on who the father is, paternity testing should be done as soon as possible. Postnatal testing includes blood collection and testing, cheek swab collection and testing, and umbilical cord collection and testing.

Before your baby is born, DNA testing can be done but this involves invasive procedures such as an amniocentesis and chorionic villus sampling.

Have you discuss your situation with your health care provider?

Maryann

And I'm pretty sure we did it before my period started too... Please answer back thanks Maryann.

Well when I did that with that guy that was 8 wks ago... I started my period Jan. 31st and it ended on Feb.6th... So idk it's very confussing to me pls explain more to me I mean if I had sex right after my period ended I think I should be 7 wks instead, idk can you pls explain a lil more to me. I'm desperate! I'm just freaking out!!! Do you really think I shouldn't be this paranoid!?! Can you get pregnant like that the way I describe and wearing a tampoon ? I hope you can't :(

You are pregnant with your boyfriend's baby. All the facts indicate this. You had sexual intercourse with your boyfriend eight weeks ago and you are eight weeks into your pregnancy.

Maryann