pregnacy

its me again i have had my "period " which i belice ita hopefully not spotting.... ummm it started the 21 but it wasnt as heavy it was enough for me to wear a pad. when inwent and urinates there wasnt much blood either intill iwipped my self tats when i saw the blood. how do i now i its spottng or my period ???? help please:(

Hi Anonymous,

If you are bleeding, it is probably your period. It is common to have irregular periods for at least two cycles after using the morning after pills.
Good luck,

Missie

hey u know how i told u that i took the next choice pill the 12 well my last period was the 6-10 and ehen i woke up today i had blood ob my underware:( could that be my period that is just messed up or could it be spotting

its not easy ask some ppl make it seem... its hard to;(

Hi Anonymous,
Though I don't know you or your family, it is important that you talk honestly with your mother. Have you and your mother ever talked about the "facts of life"? I know, some parents feel uncomfortable having "the talk" or hope that someone else, maybe a health education teacher, will take care of it.

But, isn't it better to tell your mother that you are ready to use birth control rather than wait until it is too late and you are pregnant?

I am a mother of three children. I spoke honestly with my daughter that when she felt that she was mature enough to be sexually active, then she needed to be using birth control regularly. I spoke with my sons, that when they were mature enough to be sexually active, that it was their responsibility to use condoms each and every time that they engaged in sexual activity.

Please talk with your mother,

Maryann

yes its all the same person and i havent gotten on birthcontrol bc i have no way of getting there with out my parents knowing and well i hate this that almost everybody in town knows my parents and yea what a great dissapointment it would be to them if im pregnant:( and i hope im not:(

Hi Anonymous,

From your style of posting, I am guessing that all of the above posts are from one person, you.

My role is not to judge your behavior. I can answer your questions and give you guidance on health issues.

Depo-Provera can cause a number of side effects including irregular menstrual periods or no period at all.

Why don't you use some form of birth control? Next Choice is not meant to be used as birth control but rather taken only in an emergency situation, like when a condom breaks.

You are messing with your body by taking Next Choice too frequently. I don't think you are pregnant and I truly hope that you are not.

Do you like worrying that you might be pregnant? It seems like you do. You can take control over this situation and start using birth control.

Maryann

i thi k i was just nervous and hadnt eat nothing and i get nervous like that before and kinda makes me sick.... but i know ur going to say im stupid:( and that im asking for it but since it makes me happy being with him i had sex today:( and since i havent gotten birth control i took the next chioce pill again:( is there a problem with that oh and i was on my last day of my period do u think there is a chance of pregnacy he didnt come inside of me he pulled out:( ugh im stupid:( nother month of worry:(

depo shot.... and hey today i have been kinda nervous and i grt sick to my status but im worried it might be morning sickness

Hi Anonymous,
What shot are you referring to?
Maryann