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By February 4, 2016 - 9:35am
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My boyfriend of 2 yrs has me to dress up in lingerie and use sex toys on him and participate in sex games and use sex toys on him , but he won't be intimate with me . He has me to take care of his erection by giving him oral sex only . Please give me advice

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Hello cajsparks,

Welcome to the EmpowHER community. Thank you for reaching out to us for advice.

This sounds like a one sided situation in which your role is to provide him with sexual pleasure but your needs are ignored.

I would not call this a relationship. The word alone suggests connection and involvement.

Have you spoken to him about this? Is he receptive to your feelings and needs?
Are you happy with this situation? If not, end it. Or if you think it is a situation worth saving, I suggest you both consider couple's counseling.


February 4, 2016 - 9:46am
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