Well we started dating back in school and i've been honest about everything i've told him about me . and for him the same as well. the first thing he told me is that he had two kids and an ex-wife.And i was okay with that because he was honest. We both had question that we asked each other in the beggining of our relationship. for for example: how many people we have be intimate with..he said 3.and so on and so on.. as the time went by i fell in love with him.well a year and two months go by and i had a trust issue with him hanging out with girls. so he broke up with me for a week and i tried to change..and i did.i began to trust him. another year went by and we moved to california . we moved in with each other..one day i was going through his emails and i saw him writting a few girls on a ad to find hot singles..i saw that he was recieving pics of naked girls and he sent pics of himself naked as well.i was pissed..he shortly came home from work and i confronted him about him doing that..he said he was drunk and didn't remember doing that. he said he will never do that again.so i forgave him. one day on a drive home from his moms house, i was having a conversation with him saying i wanted to know some of his secrets because as a best friend/girlfriend he should be able to share that with me. So many times i asked him if he was keeping anything from me.and he said something in his past he didnt want me to know because its not important.i guess he got sick of me asking he finally told me the truth after being with him for 2 yrs..He told me he was still married, got two old girlfriend pg and they had an abortion and he has slept with over 30 girls..i was so mad and he said this is why he didnt want to tell me because i would react this way..he said it was all my fault for asking and i told him u lied.he said i didnt lie, i just didnt want to tell u.should i leave him but i love him so much but i dont know what to do..on top of all of this..i've been asking him to have sex but hes always has an excuse(tired,no in the mood)..i feel like i dont feel wanted because i put on some weight and i just gave up on asking to have sex and we havent done anything in 1 month. can u give me some advice on how i can fix this relationship if its fixable.
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