Im 26 and have been with my partner for over 6 years. We broke up after 2, for a few months, but got back together things are better than ever. We are very much in love and i think we're both on the same page in terms of a future together. However, since we got back together our sex life is some what, none exsistant.
When we first got together, he was my first and we had sex lots. He was very sexual and almost always initiated it. When we got back togther i noticed that had changed and i was the one leading, although it never seemed to go anywhere. I wondered if i was doing something wrong.. i tried all the usual lingere, sex toys etc but the interest had gone. We talked about it and one of the problems he had, was that i had been with somebody else during our break. He wasnt mad, it just played on his mind and decreased his libido. We talked at length and i told him he nothing to worry about, this person didnt mea anything to me anymore.
I thought id found the root of the problem and things would go back to normal, but i was wrong, and here we are. I love him and i wont leave him because of this, he's my best friend, the only person i trust with anything. Sex is such a small part, however its still important to me. I feel loved, and cared for and he makes me feel wanted... but... i need to feel "wanted"!! Neither of us has cheated, we cuddle and kiss and love spending time together, it just seems to be this one problem i dont know how to solve!?
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