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I had been curious about anal sex myself, and when I started dating my current boyfriend, I felt comfortable enough with him to initiate trying. Now I absolutely love it and we have made it a semi-regular part of our sex, as it always makes me orgasm and very quickly. I think the most important part of trying anal is knowing that you have to work up to it, or else it can be painful or unenjoyable. You can start by buying a butt plug or anal dildo to help yourself adjust to the intensity of the feeling without feeling obligated to continue. It is also a good way to literally loosen up a little bit before you start actually practicing anal sex (don't worry, it will tighten back up!). From there, you can start with very slow penetration and eventually will move on to more moderate or even, uh, enthusiastic, sex. You MUST treat this part of your body gently, as with your genital parts, and LOTS OF LUBRICATION is important as well. If he is not willing to be patient with you and make it a comfortable process, than he is probably not the person to try it with. Also note that anal sex is a high risk intercourse as far as STDs and other complications go. But yes, I do orgasm regularly and sometimes multiple times from it.
November 24, 2009 - 6:29pmThis Comment
Dr. Klein, what can my husband and I do if we both have different views of sexual fantasies?
He believes in living them out, I believe in keeping them fantasies.
How can we meet in the middle?
How do I talk with him about this?
I'll look forward to hearing your insights.
April 6, 2009 - 3:32pmThis Comment