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Michelle King Robson: Night sweats and hot flashes—how my hormone imbalance led to night after night of drenched sheets

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Have you ever heard the expression “men sweat, but women glow?”

Obviously, whoever coined that phrase wasn’t a woman dealing with menopause and night sweats.

Looking back, my night sweats were clearly part of my going through perimenopause in my early 40s. But at the time, neither my physician nor I were making that connection. He believed that it was a side effect of the medications I was taking for irritable bowel syndrome, also known as IBS.

That sounded reasonable to me, so I didn’t push it. Frankly, I was too tired from all of that bed linen and pajama changing all night long to challenge his diagnosis.

Seriously—I was waking up at least 3 times a night, every single night, drenched in sweat. My pajamas were soaked, as was my pillow case and my sheets. I was sweating so much, the moisture was going all the way through the pad to the mattress.

This happened so often, I actually got pretty good at dealing with it. I began keeping a stack of fresh linens next to my bed, and some spare changes of nightgowns. When I woke up, sweaty and freezing, I could change both myself and the bed without disturbing my husband or leaving the room.

That’s the other part about night sweats that’s really miserable—the chills that accompany them.

Speaking of my husband, in case you are wondering, we have the type of bed that has two separate top mattresses, so he was able to sleep through my nighttime maneuvers. Of course, he could sleep through a train coming through our bedroom. Do I sound upset? Well, yes, but that’s another blog.

No one really had any advice for me on how to make things better. I figured night sweats were just something I had to live with.

When I was 42, I underwent my hysterectomy. That’s when the hot flashes began to kick in.

Actually, I called them “power surges,” the way the waves of heat would come at me at about 100 miles per hour. By this time, I was taking other medicines—hormones and other things—that were supposed to help my body regulate itself after the surgery.

After months of suffering, I finally saw a wonderful Tucson physician who helped me get on the correct hormone medications.

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EmpowHER Guest

God, I thought I was going mad trying to figure out why at 43 my night sweats are getting worse. Like the article says I change at least 4 times a night and then eventually have a large towel under me and on top of me to soak up the sweat but then during the day I am very cold. I am also have a terrible time with a bad yeast infection which is so debilating, thrush in my nose, throat, vaginal and possibly anus due to the itch. I have been treated with sporonox on a regular basis and cantesen which only give me relief for a couple of weeks and then it starts all over again. My husband is convinced that when I got my tonsils removed at 39 and with all the heavy duty antibiotics is messed up my immune system thus constanct yeast infections. I am constantly exhausted with no energy and on a yo-yo diet of trying to watch what I eat or drink. I rarely have alcohol (possibly 6 drinks a year) as it triggers a very bad attack two weeks later. Again I went back to my doctor early March and had another batch of blood tests which revealed that there is nothing wrong with me. I got him to test for hormonal levels, diabetes (as my mother has the condition), thryroid gland activity, kidney function and white blood cell count (to show any infection), all normal. There has to be something wrong as I feel miserable with the night sweats, yeast infection, tummy bloating, fatigue, irritability and the bleeding vaginal lesions, intermittent stabbing pains in my bottom, lower back, swollen abdomen and constant pressure on the bladder. So am I going mad or is there hope out there. Starting my starvation diet tomorrow to clear out my system again so I might some relief for a few weeks before it starts all over again unless somebody has any tips ???

April 29, 2010 - 2:04pm
EmpowHER Guest

i really need help i have tried anti depressants for sleeping, estrogen pills, black cohosh and estroven pm everything i take make my hot flashes more intense. i am now taking benadryl to sleep. i change my clothes a couple times a night, last night was really it. i tried the black cohosh made my heart race and had twice as many hot flashes from the night before. i even had to blow dry my hair. i have never been depressed but today i am i can't take it anymore. no one has answers for me to why when i take something the flashes become worse. HELP!

October 14, 2009 - 12:54pm
EmpowHER Guest

I also had a hysterectomy. I was perimenopausal but had minimal signs/symptoms. Within a few days of the hysterectomy (due to severe hemorrhaging secondary to a very large fibroid) and bilateral ovary removal (one enlarged cystic ovary and the other was "abnormal in appearance but functional"), I was started on an estrogen patch. All was well for about 10 days...then I developed a pulmonary embolism and that was the end of the estrogen replacement therapy. Instant menopause with serious hot flashes, night sweats/chills, and insomnia. Will be on coumadin for 3 more months for the blood thinning/clot treatment. Most meds interact with coumadin, so finding therapy for relief of symptoms is difficult. I will be on coumadin therapy for at least 3 more months, so need to be careful with medications and herbal/natural supplements. Any suggestions?

April 3, 2009 - 8:06pm
(reply to Anonymous)

Have you heard of Lorna Vanderhaeghe? Go to her web site, will give her email address you can email her with all symptoms and meds that you are on. She will answer takes time, im on her natural supplements for hotflashes swear they work,

September 20, 2009 - 3:55pm
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