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Adult Bullying in the Workplace: More Common Than You Might Think

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Media reactions to celebrity dermatologist Dr. Fredric Brandt’s tragic suicide may have created an unintentional opportunity to bring the issue of adult bullying into the spotlight.

Several sources hinted at the possibility that Brandt may have been devastated by the close similarities between himself and a plastic surgeon character on Tina Fey’s Netflix show “Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt.”

Celebrities often provide the inspiration for many parodies, which could be considered borderline bullying — but that's another story.

Although it is not likely that Brandt actually committed suicide as a result, such parodies may not help the self-esteem of celebrities who may be suffering from mental health issues such as depression.

The question arises, is adult bullying actually an issue for us common folk, not just something celebrities have to deal with?

It certainly is a common issue. In fact, PBS addresses adult bullying in its series “This Emotional Life.” It focuses on the workplace as being a common place where bullying may occur.

“Different from constructive criticism or conflict, bullying is persistent, it focuses on a person rather than a task, and the recipient feels powerless to stop it,” according to the PBS website.

Charmaine Hammond, a professional speaker and author, said in an email that she works as a consultant and workplace facilitator. She often provides training and intervention regarding workplace bullying, conflict and harassment.

“I define bullying as repeated and intentional acts of verbal, physical, social or psychological behaviour that is harmful to another person,” she said.

Bullying can focus on many different targets such as a person’s gender, disability and ethnicity. It also can involve threats, intimidation, humiliation and other forms of harassment, Hammond said.

Elayne Savage, a psychotherapist and workplace consultant, said in an email that if you’re not sure if a statement or action would be considered bullying, ask yourself this question: “Would most people consider this action unacceptable?”

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EmpowHER Guest

WOOWW finally I see something about bulling at work by adults who are much worse than children (evi) I was bullied by a mentally ill teacher who controled other of her followers in her bulling. I took this for 14years !!!! I know for a fact that if I had gone to a lawyer she would had been fired because many of the things she did were very ilegal, and more in a school situation. Her bulling came fron envie and obsesion of power. It got so bad that became her mental illness.

April 18, 2015 - 9:49pm
EmpowHER Guest

I am being cyberbullied. I went to see what laws were out there and found that there are very few that protect adults, but I did find one in my state. This person will only get a slap on the wrist and will most likely keep on doing what he is doing. I am saddened that these things are rarely brought to public attention until tragedy strikes.

April 17, 2015 - 12:43am
EmpowHER Guest

This is such a good article! At first I just thought that maybe in my office setting I was being to emotional and taking things to personal but this article has brought a lot of interesting points and the most important one is a form of abuse. It's very sad really because sometimes for someone to feel better about them selfs they need to make others look bad! I hope I never have any of those traits! Thank you.

April 16, 2015 - 8:05pm
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

these type of people (bullies) have a very low selfsteam, envie, inferiority complex, and some mental illness. They need to bully others to feed their ''self ego''.

April 18, 2015 - 9:55pm
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