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Flirt, But Keep It Subtle

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Dating Coach Joann Cohen shares ways you can flirt with a man subtly to let him know you’re interested.

Many women ask me, what are some of the subtle ways that you can let a man know that you are interested?

There’s a few ways, one is you really have to be confident in yourself. You have to be able to hold yourself upright, make sure that you are making direct eye contact with the man.

If we look away we are showing disinterest. We really do have to make full eye contact.

The second thing we have to do is smile. A smile is really a welcome. So we want to make sure that we are welcoming that man, making eye contact and smiling.

And when you are engaging in conversation you can also let the man know you are interested by asking him, so where are you going this weekend? What are you doing this weekend? Where do you and your friends hang out and do?

That lets him know that you are interested in him as a person.

A great example of what one of my clients did when she was interested in a man is that they started talking about movies and she started talking about a movie that she wanted to see and found out he did too.

And she said, “I would love to see that movie and nobody I know wants to go.” And then quiet, zip, stop talking. Leave the door open.

It’s a natural open door for that man to ask you out. That’s a great way. It’s subtle and he has a clear message that you want to go movies with him.

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