Dating Coach Joann Cohen shares tips to help you find a good man.
Hi, I am Joann Cohen. I am a genuine dating specialist and I help single professionals find love that lasts forever.
I have found with my clients that there’s five secrets to finding a good man. The first one is to make sure you are a good woman, that you have good values, you are mentally stable and your life is pretty much in order because you are only going to attract a good man if you are a good woman.
The second thing that you want to do is to make sure that you are really looking at the person you want to meet and you don’t throw away a great guy because the packaging isn’t right.
So perhaps he is an inch shorter than you’d like or perhaps there’s some educational thing that’s not there but it’s a good guy. He has got good values.
The third thing that you want to do is not just listen to somebody who says he has good values, watch what he does. Many people will say that they are a good person and they are honest but how is he living his life?
Is his life consistent with his values? I tell my clients don’t listen to people, watch what they do. That will tell you what kind of a person he really is.
The fourth thing that women have to do is to take action. Having a great guy is not something we are entitled to. It may not happen unless we go ahead and go look for that man.
So we need to take action, get off the couch, go out and tell our friends, go on blind dates, which a lot of times people are reluctant to do but they are really effective.
And the fifth thing that we want to do is to make sure that we are not looking for someone to save us, that we are not looking for a prince who is going to rescue us and wake us up from our sleep.
Make sure that you want a man who is really good so that you bring value to each other’s lives.
So those are the five things that I find that work with my clients to find a good man.