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8 Tips for Using Your Vibrator the First Time

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A vibrator can also help create the multi-faceted pleasure many women crave, allowing for both clitoral and vaginal orgasms. During penetration, press the vibrator against your clitoris while your partner continues his/her thrusting motion. Or switch things up and insert the vibrator inside your vagina while your partner provides manual or oral stimulation to the clitoris. Be creative! Enjoy, communicate and experiment. Report back!

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Hannah you did a awesome job explaining how to use a vibrator. There are a lot of women who can benefit from this information. I also write articles about sex, dating and relationship at http://pinkintimacy.com Thanks for the knowledgeable information.

April 12, 2013 - 2:17pm

If you have a sensitive clit, do NOT put a strong vibrator directly on it. Unfortunately, I used a a strong vibrator on my favorite super-sensitive spot. I had an abrupt strong orgasm after a few seconds before I even had a chance to get excited, but I think the vibrator ripped a surface nerve because that spot -- which had been a favorite for years -- became numb and that delicious sensitivity never returned. I can barely feel anything there ever since that day. Very sad.

September 3, 2012 - 4:40pm
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Anonymous (reply to jbid)

That is sad news
I am feeling sad for you
And am thinking how coffee cups need to have a sign on them saying 'This contains hot coffee'
How do you feel about not being adequately warned before use that you could be harmed in some way?
Better read the instructions first before you see a lawyer. But the loss of sexual pleasure is a major disaster for a healthy person
Mike

June 10, 2018 - 8:21am
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Anonymous

Hi, im a first time vibrator user aswell :) thank you for the tips it fely really great. My ass almost bursted open, and yeah, im a man <3

September 3, 2012 - 11:00am
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so sarah was like how do you use a vibrator and i was like google it so then we did and we found this page and read it we think we're throwing out now but before we do sarah had a geat time last night her vaginal fluids came out she had it on high speed i myself decided to try it out (i am a male) and it made my night with sarah

July 4, 2012 - 10:50am
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Anonymous

Good instruction. Very useful step by step. This site covers additional vibrator instructions and new vibrators recently available: http://sexuality-news.blogspot.com/

March 26, 2012 - 9:21am

Loved your article. I would like to share my experience since I am a first-time vibrator user as of 6 months ago. My boyfriend, "as a joke", bought me a Vibrator and I was reluctant to use it until he insisted on using it with me. All I can say is WOW!! The Vibrator is a little expensive but it is well worth it!
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November 30, 2010 - 5:25pm
HERWriter (reply to sallyroth)

Thanks very much for sharing, sallyroth!

I am so glad your shared vibrator experience was a good one! I hope now you have been able to explore the excitement of solo-vibrator use as well as partner play. Getting over the initial anxiety of using a new toy is the hardest part, but I'm sure you'll agree that once you make the leap, you don't look back!

Hannah

December 4, 2010 - 3:57am
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