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Hi H,
Thank you for your post, and for finding EmpowHER. I'm sorry for your troubles and frustrations. I couldn't imagine going through what you and your wife have had to endure. I'm sorry you seem to have been pushed out. You must be grieving in all of this. Do you live in the United States? It would help to know if you have any rights as her husband. I understand you have a tough path ahead of you. What do you want in this situation? Do you desire closure and to move on, or do you want back into your wife's life? It may be helpful to seek counseling to help deal with the feelings and frustration you no doubt are experiencing. A General Practitioner may have local resources for that. Here also are some books that also may be of interest:
http://wellspouse.org/books/books/
There also is a Groups section on the EmpowHER website. You may want to start a Well Spouse group to discuss some of the issues, related to being a caregiver for a sick spouse and to work through what has happened in your life.
Good luck, and let us know how else we may be able to help.