Hi Anonymous,
Thanks for coming back and giving us an update. It is amazing in this post how many women (and some men) are dealing with similar situations. I get what you mean by "won"--seems like there really isn't a winner in the whole situation, does it? You definitely are a strong woman (even if you may not feel so strong right now) to have endured all this, and to keep moving forward, which I'm sure isn't easy at all. You should not feel guilty for doing what is right by your son. I'm sure he needs you now more than ever. You are good to advocate for him and for yourself. It is a shame your marriage took the turn it did. I for one completely understand the mental abuse, having been in mentally abusive relationships in the past--it's a difficult thing when a spouse is depressed, etc. and throw in his condition too. It is so hard to know when to say when, isn't it? It is completely understandable you may need to lean on some good friends and family (and us at EmpowHER too!) right now. Your counselor also can help you put things into perspective. I hope in time you will find peace in all this. Please, please know that you are not alone. You can get through this, and see brighter days.
Warmest regards,
-Christine
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Hi Anonymous,
October 19, 2010 - 12:45pmThanks for coming back and giving us an update. It is amazing in this post how many women (and some men) are dealing with similar situations. I get what you mean by "won"--seems like there really isn't a winner in the whole situation, does it? You definitely are a strong woman (even if you may not feel so strong right now) to have endured all this, and to keep moving forward, which I'm sure isn't easy at all. You should not feel guilty for doing what is right by your son. I'm sure he needs you now more than ever. You are good to advocate for him and for yourself. It is a shame your marriage took the turn it did. I for one completely understand the mental abuse, having been in mentally abusive relationships in the past--it's a difficult thing when a spouse is depressed, etc. and throw in his condition too. It is so hard to know when to say when, isn't it? It is completely understandable you may need to lean on some good friends and family (and us at EmpowHER too!) right now. Your counselor also can help you put things into perspective. I hope in time you will find peace in all this. Please, please know that you are not alone. You can get through this, and see brighter days.
Warmest regards,
-Christine
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