Hi Makayla,
As Susan said, you need to discuss this with your boyfriend. If he won't, then you need to decide for yourself how truly invested you (and he) are in this relationship. If you're not intimate, you're really just friends, aren't you? It may be scary to consider, but I think you may have an idea what is going on. I think in these cases, you need to listen to that inner voice and move on if you have tried and he isn't responsive. Even though you're young, life is still too short to be wasting time with the wrong guy who isn't as dedicated to making the relationship work as you are.
Stick to what you decide, and let us know if you need any more support. Good luck and let us know how you're doing.
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Hi Makayla,
September 14, 2010 - 1:02pmAs Susan said, you need to discuss this with your boyfriend. If he won't, then you need to decide for yourself how truly invested you (and he) are in this relationship. If you're not intimate, you're really just friends, aren't you? It may be scary to consider, but I think you may have an idea what is going on. I think in these cases, you need to listen to that inner voice and move on if you have tried and he isn't responsive. Even though you're young, life is still too short to be wasting time with the wrong guy who isn't as dedicated to making the relationship work as you are.
Stick to what you decide, and let us know if you need any more support. Good luck and let us know how you're doing.
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