Hi Stephaniek,
I apologize, I'm not completely clear on the situation from your post, so forgive me if I'm asking things you already answered. What do you think is going on with him? Are you and your husband sexually incompatible, or is something else going on?
How does he feel about the fact you haven't been sexually intimate for more than 6 months? Do you have children? Would he consider going to a marital counselor with you if you asked?
And finally, where are you in this situation? He may think there's no problem, but obviously it is for you. What does he say to that? Would you consider going to counseling on your own to deal with how this no doubt has affected you?
You know you can't change him, but you can work on improving your marriage. I'm glad you have a good relationship besides for the sex. But sexless marriage is a tough thing.
Let us know what you think, and how we may be able to better help you to work this through. There also are women in EmpowHER's ASK community who are experiencing situations similar to yours. You definitely are not alone.
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Hi Stephaniek,
December 16, 2010 - 8:36amI apologize, I'm not completely clear on the situation from your post, so forgive me if I'm asking things you already answered. What do you think is going on with him? Are you and your husband sexually incompatible, or is something else going on?
How does he feel about the fact you haven't been sexually intimate for more than 6 months? Do you have children? Would he consider going to a marital counselor with you if you asked?
And finally, where are you in this situation? He may think there's no problem, but obviously it is for you. What does he say to that? Would you consider going to counseling on your own to deal with how this no doubt has affected you?
You know you can't change him, but you can work on improving your marriage. I'm glad you have a good relationship besides for the sex. But sexless marriage is a tough thing.
Let us know what you think, and how we may be able to better help you to work this through. There also are women in EmpowHER's ASK community who are experiencing situations similar to yours. You definitely are not alone.
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