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Can i get pregnant without deep penetration?

By uniquenezz July 9, 2009 - 4:55am
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Hi, I'm 23 years old lady and I'm still a virgin. I have a bf and we've been together for more than 4 years. We never had 'real' penetration or sexual intercourse (saving it for the marriage). But today we made out and he only put his tip into me (only like half an inch to an inch) but did not cum in me. I am just a little concerned and went online to search for answers, and some people even mentioned that with what i've done, i'm actually not a virgin anymore! but no pain no blood flow happened.

Anyway, my question is, will i get pregnant this way? isit really true that if sperm was only near the vagina, i will get pregnant?

only supportive and real answers please.. i know i shud've used contraception, but it was our first time, and we didn't really planned for it to happen.


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hi, the other day my by was fingering me, so I gave him a hand job. after he came, he put his tip into my v***na, please help! I'm only 16 and I don't want to be pregnant! my period isn't due for another 3 weeks and I'm really really scared! please help:'(

December 22, 2014 - 12:55pm
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Hi guys. I ask you to please please please awnser me.Im really desperate.Me and my boyfriend fooled around a bit and he enterd me for like 3 seconds then I told him to stop. My period ended 2 days before this happend.He didnt ejaculate and his penis didnt even go further than around 2 to 3 inches. I am still a virgin , I have never had sex before or done something like this .. do you think I can be pregnant ?? PlEASE HELP ME !!

October 19, 2014 - 9:31am
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

Chances are you weren't ovulating at this time. You should be OK

January 3, 2015 - 3:45am
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So I'm in a very similar state I do take the pill but what is the answer to this question??

October 6, 2014 - 1:32am
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Hi I need advice I was a vergin I till Sataday long story short he n I was messing around he been realy stresses lately he jus found out his mum has cancer n on Sataday we got realy naughty n he n I tried having sex every time he tried penetrating he went soft the 3 time he pushed in n after a min or 2 he went soft on me again I have polycystic ovaries can I get pregnant I'm. Still cuz I'm freaking out

September 1, 2014 - 8:16am
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My boyfriend and I were messing around one day and he put his penis in my vagina for about a minute, unprotected. He said nothing came out at all. Is it possible to get pregnant from that?? Please help I'm freaking out.

July 28, 2014 - 5:30pm
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Hi! I just need to consult something.. please help me. before anything else.. I'm not pregnant! :) But my question is, I usually sleep at regular hours.. like 12am to 8am and my menstruation is normal.. like that kind of schedule.. then when I started my job, my shift is from 6am-2pm.. then I didnt have my period last month, and Im not sure if i'll have this month... its almost the end of July. I have an irregular mestruation history 3 years ago.. like I didnt have my period for 4 months and I literally got FAT! I dont know what to do to have my period back... I gain a lot of weight whenever I dont get my period.. Please help me on what to do :/ Thank you thank you very much... I really appreciate this site. :)

July 18, 2014 - 7:53am
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

I'm definitely no expert, but something similar happened to me my senior year of high school. I was a role model on the color guard, matching with a knee injury, and trying to get in to a really prestigious liberal arts school. Long story short, I was exceedingly stressed out and didn't have my period from July until November. I got it back by consulting with my mom's OBGYN. As a virgin, this felt really awkward for me, especially because he was the doctor present when I was born, but he gave me a ten-day prescription. He said that if it didn't come back by the time I ran out, I would need to come back for tests, but otherwise it was simply stress-induced. From your post, that's what it sounds like to me, so if you really want it back I would visit your OBGYN. Personally, I wish mine would pull another disappearing act. My last cycle during school had me in the infirmary for a shot of phenegrin. If you don't have that kind of problem, though, then good for you and best of luck.

July 21, 2014 - 10:48pm
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Been reading through the comments but I just need a bit more reassurance, okai so on Saturday me and my boyfriend was fooling around and I gave him a blowjob and we decided to try putting his penis in for a second or a minute in my vagina. It went in maybe half way into the vagina then we decide to stop because we didn't want to get carried away without protection, also at the time I was producing brown discharge(on the mini pill) when he put his penis in (I know disgusting) but it was the heat of the moment and my boyfriend didn't mind since we only put it in for a minute, after that we sat down and I got so paranoid and googled if I was going to get pregnant and I got him paranoid as well since he was next to me at the time we told each other that we will never do that again without condoms, also I am on the mini-pill but I am still paranoid. I have been taking the pill properly since the start of 2014 but I do not know if the pill is effective to prevent pregnancy. Also he didn't come inside me it was only in for a minute not even deep because it hurt, I don't think he precum as well.

Also I have been getting symptoms that I may think I may be pregnant I started spotting which I'm use to because of the mini pill but this spotting was different because it never went on my panties I had to wipe which was new for me, also I've been getting nauseous for a couple of hours and I've been feeling sick when I eat but sometimes I eat fast, I haven't been vomiting. I've been getting really small cramps and I've been getting gassy (this is normal but still paranoid) I've been spotting for 5 days now but it's going away I think also the stomach pains I have could be food poisoning from the spicy food I eat which I read about since I ate something bad last week but who knows. I'm just asking for reassurance is there a high chance that I'm pregnant or just overthinking things and being paranoid and I don't have sore breast, the cramps aren't bad just stomach pains from the gas I think, and it's been 6 days since the incident on Saturday. Thankyou for reading this and I will come and check for new comments or replies :) !

July 17, 2014 - 6:39am
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