Hi, I'm 23 years old lady and I'm still a virgin. I have a bf and we've been together for more than 4 years. We never had 'real' penetration or sexual intercourse (saving it for the marriage). But today we made out and he only put his tip into me (only like half an inch to an inch) but did not cum in me. I am just a little concerned and went online to search for answers, and some people even mentioned that with what i've done, i'm actually not a virgin anymore! but no pain no blood flow happened.
Anyway, my question is, will i get pregnant this way? isit really true that if sperm was only near the vagina, i will get pregnant?
only supportive and real answers please.. i know i shud've used contraception, but it was our first time, and we didn't really planned for it to happen.
thanks..
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So me and my guy friend were just laying in my bed when he he started rubbing on me well then before I knew it he put his penis in the very top of my vagina but not near the actual opening.. this happened a week ago but I missed my period today.. I have been having cramps tho and worrying alot... help please!!
February 25, 2012 - 1:41amThis Comment
Also im 99 % sure he didn't cum in me!! But still kinda scared about pre-cum.
February 25, 2012 - 1:47amThis Comment
I started my period today!! =] yay!!
February 25, 2012 - 12:39pmThis Comment
Try to relax. Being stressed out can cause your period to be late.
If your boyfriend was wearing a condom and it did not break, there is no chance that you could become pregnant.
I will not judge you. But, as a registered nurse and mother of 3 children, I urge you to be proactive and strongly consider using some form of birth control consistently.
Condoms can break. If you think that you are ready, at age 15 years old, to be sexually active, then you need to protect yourself from an unwanted pregnancy.
Also, if you are having sex at age 15, there are many years and many sexual partners in your future. You need to become educated and protect yourself from sexually transmitted diseases.
Maryann
February 24, 2012 - 6:17pmThis Comment
im 15 and had sex with my boyfriend ... i know its realy bad please dont judge, but he wore a condom and didnt eject in me but he did have pre ejection and im 99% sure the condom didnt break but im still nervous tht i could b pregnant... could i?
February 24, 2012 - 3:24pmThis Comment
So on the 11th my girlfriend and I decided to take our relationship to the next level and had sex. we both were virgins and before she had given me oral. after I ejaculated there was some time... not sure how long but then I started teasing her with the head of my penis i dont think i entered her but there was alot of contact, could she get pregnate from this? shes really scared about this and thinks shes pregnate and this is the only time that i can even think we could have messed up, every time after we've used protection and i've pulled out. any info would be appreciated.
February 19, 2012 - 12:00amThis Comment
Hi Anonymous,
Thank you for your question. If you have sex, you risk the chance of pregnancy. It is not based on how far the penis is inserted rather if there is an opportunity for sperm to enter the vagina. Perhaps, you should consult your physician about birth control and always use condoms.
Hope this helps,
February 18, 2012 - 10:37amMissie
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Well last night me and my boyfriend were having some fun I'm a virgin and he said it didnt go in completely just the head and he was going back and forth in and out and he came while only his head was in me. Can I be pregnant?
February 18, 2012 - 6:37amThis Comment
Hi babygirl,
I would say there is a highly unlikely chance that you may be pregnant. Your on birth control and you were on your period so highly unlikely to be ovulating. You should be fine.
Hope this helps.
Missie
February 12, 2012 - 11:17amThis Comment
Hello I am 16 and my fiancè and I were messing around in the hot tub. His penis on my vagina but i don't think it went in because I am so tight. He doesn't think there was any pre-cumm but we aren't positive. I am on my period and I am also on birth control for my periods. I don't take it at the exact time everyday. Should I go get the morning after pill? How do i do it without my grandparents knowing?
February 11, 2012 - 6:09amCould I get pregnant?
Please help me before it is too late!!!
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