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Can you get pregnant due to dry humping?

By Anonymous October 26, 2010 - 9:01pm
 
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So the past 2 months, i've been getting my period exactly on the 22nd. When I'm stressed, i know it can delay. My boyfriend and I were pretty much dryhumping, but he had boxers and jeans on, and i had my underwear (it was lace, and i'm afraid that maybe stuff can get through easier) and pantie liner on, although at times i felt like my pantie liner wasn't in place right, but just around the clitoris area. It's past the 22nd, but sometimes my period isn't always exact of course, but i've been pretty paranoid after dryhumping. I've been very active with school, and not getting good sleep and afraid that maybe i've been overactive to where my body can't keep up. I recently got a cold and wondering if that can affect my period in some way. Although lately, I haven't been that nervous about it. My discharge has been kind of heavy, whiteish and yellowish. This only started about more than a week ago. My boyfriend and I did dry heaving on the 17th. I've been kind of moody and a little cramping. I'm worried about being pregnant or something. please tell me advice.

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Anonymous

Hello maryan and Susan I hope you can answer my question and give me something soothing words to relieve my fear.
On December 2016, I got engage with some unprotected physical contact with my boyfriend where we both were naked. However there was never a penetration or ejaculation inside my vagina as I'm still a virgin up until now. We were just rubbing and grinding. Although I was far from ovulation that time, I was so scared to death of pregnancy to the point of driving myself crazy about it. I took postinor asap. I've had 7 negative pregnancy test, 4 regular monthly periods and 2 ultrasound done on March and April which all shows empty uterus. I never have any sexual contact ever since then.

However On May 2017 , I thought I was getting over it and can finally accept the fact that I'm not pregnant. So my boyfriend and I had an outercourse where we both were fully clothed all the times. (3 layers including panties, leggings, and his thick shorts) meaning that there was never a penetration inside me. moreover, he did not ejaculate in his pants, on my pants or anywhere near my vagina. He only ejaculated on his stomach when I gave him hand jobs and we washed everything after. We also did not touch my private parts at all. I swear I thought I have gotten rid of my pregnancy scare that happened in December 2016. But when I came back home, suddenly all the anxiety, fear and panic attack came back to me all over again just like what I've been through in December 2016. Do you think I'm at risk of getting pregnant even if we only had outercourse? I don't think I can stay calm until I at least get 5 consecutive regular periods, at least 5 pregnancy test and another 2 ultrasound just to be dead sure that I'm not pregnant. Do you think all that is necessary for this time around? Truth is, I'm so so tired of spending too much over all these tests but I need to give myself some reassurance or else I would drive myself crazy thinking of any possibility of getting pregnant. Maryann and Susan , please help me as I'm only 22 years old and not ready for all this.

May 23, 2017 - 9:42am
Guide (reply to Anonymous)

Hello Anonymous,

It is evident that you are not pregnant. But, these thoughts are overwhelming you.

Have you considered choosing and using some form of regular birth control? It would offer you protection and maybe, give you some peace of mind.

Regards,
Maryann

May 24, 2017 - 8:38am
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Anonymous

So me and my boyfriend are dry humping and i finished him by giving hand job, and some of the sperm went through my shorts not on the vaginal part just the inguinal part and the side of my short but i immediately cleaned my vagina and changed my panties and short, could I get pregnant?

May 22, 2017 - 10:42am
Guide (reply to Anonymous)

Hello Anonymous,

There was no risk for becoming pregnant.

Regards,
Maryann

May 24, 2017 - 8:34am
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Anonymous

Hi~
i got a few questions to ask
1) dry humping without clothes on with penis rubbing against the ciltorus, likely to have precum but no ejaculation. The guy pee had not masterbate on the day and had pee before humping. Will there be chance of getting pregnant?

2) Just the penis head going into the vagina for 2s. likely to have precum but no ejaculation. The guy had not masterbate on the day and pee before engaging sexual activity. Will there be chance of getting pregnant?

kindly reply thanks!

May 8, 2017 - 10:03am
HERWriter Guide (reply to Anonymous)

Hello Anon

Pre-ejaculate does not contain any sperm. Sperm may be inside the urethra if a man ejaculated recently and did not urinate since. If he urinated since he last ejaculated, there is no sperm at all. Pregnancy is very uncommon from pre-ejaculate and the urethra would have to contain sperm at the same time. A woman would also have to be ovulating and engage in unprotected intercourse with ejaculation.

Therefore there should be no pregnancy risk.
Susan

May 8, 2017 - 3:25pm
HERWriter Guide (reply to Anonymous)

Hello Anon

Pre-ejaculate does not contain any sperm. Sperm may be inside the urethra if a man ejaculated recently and did not urinate since. If he urinated since he last ejaculated, there is no sperm at all. Pregnancy is very uncommon from pre-ejaculate and the urethra would have to contain sperm at the same time. A woman would also have to be ovulating and engage in unprotected intercourse with ejaculation.

Therefore there should be no pregnancy risk.
Susan

May 8, 2017 - 3:11pm
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Anonymous

Hi a week ago my bf and I were dry humping with only our undies on. He came and complete soaked his underwear and that in turn soaked mine as well. It's now been a week and now my breast is starting to be really sore. I'm expected to have my period next week but I'm really worried because this is the first time my breast got this sore. Am I pregnant? Please help me, I'm so stressed :(

May 5, 2017 - 9:20am
Guide (reply to Anonymous)

Hello Anonymous,

From what you have shared, I doubt that you became pregnant, because both of you were wearing underwear, which acted as a barrier.

Regards,
Maryann

May 7, 2017 - 2:36pm
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Anonymous

Hi,
I dryhumped my boyfriend naked towards the end of March (I think sometime during the week of the 21st), and he did ejaculate on the lips and towards the clitoris on the outside only, but I did wash off right after it happened. Normally I get my period every 23 days but it's been a month since I've had it. Is there any way that I'm pregnant?
Please please help!

May 3, 2017 - 8:02pm
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