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By Anonymous September 7, 2016 - 6:35am
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I had an unprotected sex with my boyfriend 3 months ago.. then i had 2 periods ...but now in the 3 rd month, im not having it :( it is the 39th day :O..pls help me asap

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Hello Anonymous,

Welcome to EmpowHER. Thank you for reaching out to our community with your concern about no period this month.

Have you had unprotected sex since your last normal period two months ago?

Have you been experiencing an unusually high level of stress? Have you recently increased your level of physical activity? Have you lost or gained a lot of weight? Have you been traveling? Have you been ill?

All of these situations can cause a delay or missed period. The menstrual cycle is regulated by a precise balance of hormones. Any upset will cause a change in your menstrual cycle.

Since this is causing you to worry, I suggest to speak with your gynecologist, who knows you and your medical history.


September 7, 2016 - 8:07am
(reply to Maryann Gromisch RN)

Hi MA'am its me only :) anonymous...i became a member. pls reply soon :)

September 7, 2016 - 9:09pm
(reply to Maryann Gromisch RN)

HEy, MAryann Ma'am :) thanks for yua response :)

Yes , thats what i said ... I had an unprotected sex 3 months ago. Then I had 2 regular periods. NOw this the 3 rd month after our contact , now im not getting periods since now :O this is the 40th day.

Stress..maybe yeah :/ I've joined some physical activity like swimming . Its been 2 months since I've started swimming. yes i have lost some 2 or 3 kg wt.No travelling . I had a fever too(1 month ago)..in between this.

pls help me asap . Tell me whether im pregnant . im not in a situation to get the pregnancy test kits ....

September 7, 2016 - 9:05pm
Guide (reply to Zainabnaurani)

Hello Zainabnaurani,

As much as I would like to help you, I cannot say whether or not you are pregnant. Only a pregnancy test can show that. But, if you have not had unprotected intercourse since your last normal period, I do not think you could be pregnant.

That is not to say that there is not a hormonal imbalance that is causing a missed period. Again, only a blood test to check hormone levels can determine that.

Can you see a physician or visit a women's health clinic?


September 8, 2016 - 8:47am
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