I need some advice from anyone. I've been with my partner for about 4 months now. Two months into the relationship we said the "L" word to each other and were passionately in love physically and emotionally. Into the third month I went on holiday for three weeks. When I came back, things were fine for about a week. After this week my boyfriend and I went from seeing each other 2-3 times a week, to about 1-2. Before this the sex was amazing, we did it everytime we saw each other. Recently I had noticed when I invited him over he would come up with excuses. At first I believed him, then I started to get frustrated. I asked him what was wrong. He said that he was going through some anxiety problems and was avoiding not only me, but his friends too. I told him if he wanted to talk about it I was there for him. He said that he didn't want to talk about it and he work put his chin up high and get over it. 4 days later we were going to hang. Anothe excuse came up. This time getting frustrated I explained how I thought he was shutting me out. He sent a SMS explaining how hes anxious all the time around me. We meet up today to have a chat. He explained how he loved spending time with me, and we have a connection, but he has been advoiding me because he's anxious everytime we hangout that it would lead to sex. He explained how he gets a anxity even the thought of it. I asked him, why?, was it my looks that have changed, anything? His reply was that nothing has changed about me and that everything was like when we first met. We were considering to break it off then. But have decided to give it another week to see if his feelings have changed? I know that he has some money issues at the moment that is stressing him out also. I need people's advice about if this feeling will change? If there is anything I can do to get him sexually into me again. Has anyone else had this issue before and what did they do l?I love him so much and he means the world to me. It's crazy to believe that such a wonderful relationship at the start can lead to this :(
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