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IS my girlfriend pregnant?

November 6, 2009 - 9:37pm 22 reads 2 comments

i been wondering that. we been dating for a while now and we only had sex three times. the 1st time it was on oct. 16 2009 and the 2nd and 3rd time was on oct. 18 2009. she was expecting her period on oct. 24 2009 wich she missed. she tells me that her breast are tender and she has morning sickness. she been also feeling tired all the time. i told her to take a pregnancy test but she dnt wants too and of course i respect her decision. its now nov. 06 2009 and she still hasnt gotten her period she is now 14 days late. could be im going to be a dad or is it just something else?.. please i need some help or any advice that could be helpeful would work too.. thank you very much i'll be very thankful to all dose who will help(:

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Susan Cody

Hi ilovemygirlfriend

Thanks for your post. Whether she might be pregnant or not depends on a few things.

Were you having unprotected sex? What kind of protection are either of you using? Does she have a history of irregular periods?

If she is two weeks late, she's going to have to take a pregnancy test. If she is telling you all her symptoms but not taking a pregnancy test, she's probably terrified and may also be in denial. It's crucial she takes a test so that she can take action.

Sit down and talk with her - being in denial of pregnancy can lead to a bad outcome so she needs to come to terms with whatever is going on - as soon as possible. Only she can tell you if you're going to be a Dad or not.

Please have a talk with her and get that test done. Will you update us?

i love my girlfriend

thx for your help. and yes we did had unprotection sex. even though i didnt ejaculated inside of her i think i mite of pre-ejaculated with noticing or something im not sure. and no she never been irregular with her period before this is dah first time dats why im concern about it. but i do think shez afraid of being a mom first dah first time. but thank you very much i'll make sure to talk with her and thank you one more time.

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