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my hymen broke but penis didn't entered. is this become a cause of pregnancy?

By Anonymous March 7, 2015 - 11:48am
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yesterday was my first time. my hymen broke but penis wasn't entered into my vagina because tightness and pain . we used condom but he didn't ejaculated because penis didn't enter into vagina. he removed condom because he wasn't feeling anything then he rub dick against my vagina but no ejaculation. then he wore new condom for second try but again dick not entered in my vagina. he pre-cum lit a bit for three times but not ejaculated still aroused dick. because he was in stress because its our first time and we don't know how to do sex . intercourse wasn't done but my hymen broke. i am feeling pain all over down there, feeling like sore cut, over vaginal layers, abdominal region, legs, backache . should i use any kind of precautions or sentilizer after hymen broke? i bleed whole day then brown discharge came out. so can i get pregnant? my periods was expected today but it's not come. i am gonna wait for three more days but if menses won't start should i do a pregnancy test? because i heard before and after menses there are very bright chance to get pregnant. and i am still confused did i do sex or not? doing intercourse is sex? and we didn't do penetration or intercourse.

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Thank you so much . Such a relief!!!!! I really appreciate your generous and well-explained answer. But one thing i want to clarify that, I was not on periods that day. Even though my menses dates are delay about 5 days now. On Friday my period date was expected but i am still on wait. My abdominal region is swellen . Is it normal?

Thanks again.
Best Regards.

March 10, 2015 - 12:41pm
Guide (reply to shasha.says)

Hormonal imbalances are a common cause of late menstrual cycles.  Especially during adolescent years, you can experience delays, missed periods, irregular periods etc.  Periods can be very unpredictable at times.  The only time it is vital to have a regular period is if you are trying to become pregnant, or you have severe negative symptoms attached to your cycle (such as debilitating pelvic pain.)


March 11, 2015 - 10:23am
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Thanks a lot..

Best regards

March 11, 2015 - 11:00am

Hello and thank you for sharing you question.

The short answer is: no.  You cannot become pregnant because of this event.  The ONLY way you can become pregnant is if he ejaculates into your vagina during penetration.

The hymen does not in fact have nerve endings.  So the pain you feel is most likely not because of changes in the hymen but the over-all situation.  First of all, you need to be well lubricate and relaxed.  Your body produces a natural lubricant during arousal. Since you were on your period, this probably added to the stress and did not allow you to relax.

However, in conclusion, you will not become pregnant.


March 7, 2015 - 6:56pm
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