Please help me I've been online for hours freaking out more than you can possibly imagine. So my boyfriend and I didn't necessarily have sex he rubbed his area on mine and says he didn't ejaculate. And my period is in 13 days... I'm not pregnant am I ???

Dear Anon 23,

Thank you for your post.

All questions go to moderation, so it takes a bit of time to answer.

A woman cannot get pregnant unless she has unprotected sex with ejaculation inside (or rarely) on the opening to her vagina. When sperm comes in contact with the vaginal canal there is always going to be some risk. But there is a big difference btw what is a realistic scenario for becoming pregnant and a far-fetched or very unlikely one. Only you and your boyfriend can know exactly what went on. I can only give you give information.

Moving forward, use protection during this kind of sex play, especially if intercourse follows.

Helena