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What does it mean when a girl gets wet from sex or being turned on? What happens if she isn't wet? It hurts to have sex and not be wet, is there something wrong?

By Anonymous April 14, 2009 - 9:00am
 
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Everytime I am having sex I always seem to be very wet, and sometimes wet through my panties. However, I met this new guy, really great!! I like him a lot and we stepped into that next level of having sex with each other. I did get an orgasm and it was enjoyable, but I was not wet and it eventually started to hurt mainly from dry skin rubbing against dry skin. Does this mean that I am not attracted to him? Is there a problem? Is there a way to fix this?

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(reply to Anonymous)

Your physical response sounds like you are sexually aroused when you think of your boyfriend, and this is normal.

March 10, 2011 - 9:16am
(reply to Alison Beaver)

Haha I know the feeling!

February 4, 2012 - 5:48pm
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Anonymous

Ok. So, I've been dating this guy for almost four months and even though we've had our fights, we're deeply in love. We're only teenagers in high school and he is not a virgin. Yes, you may call young love "dumb love", but its still love. Anyways, he wants us to go a little further and I sort of want to too. But I'm a virgin and completely unexperienced about all this, including fingering and stuff. When we make out he rubs me, and it really gets me turned on. I get wet! I feel it! But I'm also a bit scared because I've heard that first times are always sucky and painful. And since obviously I will bleed, I am ver scared of that. I hate the fact that I'll bleed, specially because I'll be embarrassed. I want to know if I will bleed a lot, or at least how much? Maybe some drops? Someone please describe to me what first times are like. :) Thank you!

January 15, 2011 - 5:18pm
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

I didn't bleed at all.. its different for everyone.. but while you're in highschool I would wait.. I lost my virginity to my highschool sweetheart and regretted it ever since.. there is no reason to rush things and trust me for guys at that age sex is it.. once you get there, there is nothing left to do but try and keep it interesting.. and it definitely gets boring at that age.. it won't keep him around forever and.if you have the tiniest doubt you should just hold off.. its devastating at a young age.. it takes months maybe years to get past

August 27, 2011 - 10:27pm
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Anonymous

plzzz tell me why i dnt get wet while masturbation...why tht happen?? plzz tell me.. m worried cz m onlii 17

November 22, 2010 - 1:18pm
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Anonymous

well i have never had sex with my boyfriend just oral and stuff close to sex. we decided to wait because im 16 and he's 14. i still get wet normally from being so turned on but for the past week can't get wet no matter how horny i am. i think its ok but im not sure we have been using other types of lub so it is more pleasureable for both of us

November 14, 2010 - 1:43pm
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Anonymous

Hello Im Rebecca and me and my boyfriend were having sex right, then we smelt this foul smell, it just smelt abit weird and un-natural. I dont know if it was from my vagina or something, but I rekcon it was. Any Ideas on what it could be?

And also my boyfreind wants to lick me there, I reckon its abit gross and Im abit embarressed because it could taste foul and he could just bail out on me...:( please help.

October 5, 2010 - 9:42pm
(reply to Anonymous)

Women and men have different odors, depending on many factors, but if an odor is especially foul or odd, even "un-natural" as you describe it, you may have a vaginal infection. This is OK....just something that needs to be medically examined by a doctor and treated appropriately.

Let us know if you have any additional questions!

November 14, 2010 - 3:28pm
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Anonymous

Im a virgin any advice?

July 28, 2010 - 6:51pm
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

My advice is to stay that way as long as you are unsure.. when I lost my virginity to the wrong guy I was devastated.. and it hurt longer because of that.. unfortunately it can be a rather painful experience and many people handle it differently.. but inside, it changes you forever.. I'm not saying he has to be the one.. but I am saying to just be sure.. take your time.. there.is no reason to rush.. many people wait even into their twenties to thirties.. don't let the pressure of "everyone" doing it get to you.. trust me they aren't you should own your virginity while you can.

August 27, 2011 - 10:20pm
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