Okay well i slept with someone that has herpes i was told by a few of his family members. I slept with him at least 14 times in the last two weeks, he would let me look at his thing or suck it witch i didnt suck it i just dont do that but besides the point he would not let me touch it idk cause he was senstive cause of the herpes but i didnt see no outbreak. im praying to god i dont have it i dont see anything but idk i just want to here what other people think i use a condom with him twice but thats the only time.
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Hi crazyinlove,
Thanks for your post.
How does his family know he has herpes, but you don't? You said he was sensitive due to his herpes - do you know this for sure?
Also, most people don't have signs of herpes when they have sex. They wait until the outbreak is over before they have sex, so just because you saw no signs does not mean he doesn't have the infection.
It may be true that he is infected or it may not but you need to ask him right away! Herpes is not something that will ever leave you so you may want to get on some antivirals as soon as you get an outbreak to avoid or minimize future outbreaks (they can be very painful).
Ask him immediately if he has this condition but either way, get yourself to your doctor as soon as you can to get tested and to weigh your options if you are indeed infected. You don't know yet if you are, so make sure to get a professional opinion without worrying too much.
Keep us updated and move on this as quickly as you can. Hopefully you'll get a negative result.
Best,
August 27, 2010 - 11:22amSusan
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I mean who would want to ammit that and when i asked him before we had sex he said he was clean no one is going to ammit they have herpes, but i talked to his best friend and his sister inlaw and they said he deff got it and his kids mother caught it from him she also told me. And i already called my doctor and she said its way to early to no that she is going to give me a blood test in oct i got tested for everything about a week ago like cyamida yeast and all that came back okay, but im praying it comes out negatiive. And he will not talk to me but like i said he wont ammit it to me anyways. And also i put two and two together he wouldnt let me touch him god nos why i never seen a guy like that so that was kind of weird and i was like why are you like that and he was like im senstive cause a girl bite me,lol..witch dont make sence.. he was like i can even show you the scar, witch made me think maybe he had a outbreak and theres a mark cause the scab feel off, millions of things are going threw my head but when i first started sleeping with him was about two weeks ago and i seen on websites it takes about two weeks for them to show up and nothing yet thank god but thank you for the support hope to hear from you soon. question? do you have this too?
August 27, 2010 - 12:29pmHey again!
Who would want to admit they have herpes to their partner?
A decent human being who actually cares that he may be inflicting a non curable disease onto someone, that's who!
No-one is going to admit they have herpes? Yes, people do all the time. Caring, mature people. He's clearly neither.
It may take two weeks, it may take months for an outbreak. Please don't wait, please go and get tested.
If he will not talk to you about it and is secretive about things, I'd call it quits and for now and get tested. Why would you want to date a man like that? You have only been with him for a couple of weeks, there is so much drama already (his kids mother accusing him of giving her herpes, his whole family getting involved in your relationship) my goodness - get tested and get rid of this guy, unless you want never ending drama in your life!
Please update after you are tested. Unless you get tested there is nothing we can do for you, I'm afraid, as we'll end up going round and round a topic that is currently without validation.
Our best to you,
August 27, 2010 - 12:54pm~Susan
To be honest it wasnt a relationship it was like friends for bennit fits. And no hes a loser and he wouldnt tell me and been me im done with him and my doctor told me to wait she wont give me a blood test til oct.
August 27, 2010 - 12:57pm