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By April 27, 2015 - 1:13pm

I started my period at the beginning of this month i have irregular periods , but my period has now became regular i always start my period at the beginning of the month.. But my boyfriend and i had sex twice, he didn't cum inside me but maybe a little got inside.. i don't know, but anyways couples days after me and him had sex the first time a couple days later i started bleeding lightly and it didn't last long at all, well anyways i didn't think nothing about it, maybe a week later we had sex again. And it's now been 2 weeks since then i am now bleeding again. What could this be?

By HERWriter Guide June 16, 2015 - 6:32am

Hi Agirl

I know life is busy but if he does't know if he ejaculated and you don't know if you took your birth control pills then you need to just use a condom all the time.  That lack of awareness will lead to an unwanted pregnancy.  Get the emergency pills immediately and take as prescribed.  As to your risks, we can't say.



June 16, 2015 - 6:32am
By June 15, 2015 - 8:36pm

Hi so me and my boyfriend just had unprotected sex and I'm in my first week of my birth control and we're not entirely sure if he got cum inside me or not and I can't remember if I missed pills this week or not. We're freaking out and reading things online that is telling us I could be pregnant but should get a emergency contraception. We're for sure getting the emergency contraception. Should I be very worried?

June 15, 2015 - 8:36pm
By HERWriter Guide May 14, 2015 - 2:54pm

Hi sweetiepie

It sounds like you had some sort of period but a test will let you know for sure.

sweetiepie, if you have not succeeded in conceiving in 9 years then it's very likely you or your partner has a fertility issue. I would schedule an appointment to have both of you tested. The quicker you get this done, the more time you have to work on any fertility issues. 

We wish you the best,


May 14, 2015 - 2:54pm
By May 14, 2015 - 7:10am

Hello I've been trying for nine years to convince and me and my partner had sex the whole month of March so i wouldn't miss my fertile days and my period is usually heavy for six days i never had a lite cycle before. But around April 28 my cycle came spotting brown blood on and off for six days then eleven days later I started spotting red blood on and off can anyone tell me what this is not sure if it would be implantation or just my period.

May 14, 2015 - 7:10am
By HERWriter Guide April 30, 2015 - 3:54pm

Hi kayy.1622

Honestly, if you don't know what's going on, we can't know either. You have to be responsible for what you are doing sexually otherwise you'll end up with pregnancy or diseases and still be clueless about how things happened. 

It sounds like you have your period now.



April 30, 2015 - 3:54pm

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